A Cup of Water Under My Bed: December 2014 Additional Conversation

A Cup of Water Under My Bed by Daisy Hernandez

December 2014: Daisy Hernandez, author of A Cup of Water Under My Bed, published by Beacon Press

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About the Book:

A Cup of Water Under My Bed by Daisy Hernandez

A Cup of Water Under My Bed

Beacon Press
By Daisy Hernandez
Published by Beacon Press
ISBN-13: 978-0807014486

A coming-of-age memoir by a Colombian-Cuban woman about shaping lessons from home into a new, queer life.

In this lyrical, coming-of-age memoir, Daisy Hernández chronicles what the women in her Cuban-Colombian family taught her about love, money, and race. Her mother warns her about envidia and men who seduce you with pastries, while one tía bemoans that her niece is turning out to be “una india” instead of an American. Another auntie instructs that when two people are close, they are bound to become like uña y mugre, fingernails and dirt, and that no, Daisy’s father is not godless. He’s simply praying to a candy dish that can be traced back to Africa. 

These lessons—rooted in women’s experiences of migration, colonization, y cariño—define in evocative detail what it means to grow up female in an immigrant home. In one story, Daisy sets out to defy the dictates of race and class that preoccupy her mother and tías, but dating women and transmen, and coming to identify as bisexual, leads her to unexpected questions. In another piece, NAFTA shuts local factories in her hometown on the outskirts of New York City, and she begins translating unemployment forms for her parents, moving between English and Spanish, as well as private and collective fears. In prose that is both memoir and commentary, Daisy reflects on reporting for the New York Times as the paper is rocked by the biggest plagiarism scandal in its history and plunged into debates about the role of race in the newsroom.

A heartfelt exploration of family, identity, and language, A Cup of Water Under My Bed is ultimately a daughter’s story of finding herself and her community, and of creating a new, queer life.

About the Author:

Daisy Hernandez

Photo by Jorge Rivas

Daisy Hernandez

“I grew up in New Jersey. That’s where I heard the best stories about Cuba and Colombia and this lady who knows how to eat an avocado so you won’t get pregnant. It’s also where I first learned about feminism, queer identity, and race in the Americas. You can read these stories in my new book, A Cup of Water Under My Bed: A Memoir. It’s in bookstores Sept. 9.

For the academic year 2014-2015, I’ll be the Kenan Visiting Writer at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill.

My commentaries have been in the New York Times, Ms. magazine and In These Times. My opeds have also been aired on NPR’s All Things Considered, and O’Reilly and Juan Williams have blasted me for “injecting race” into the news.

With my comadre, the poet and author Bushra Rehman, I’ve co-edited the anthology Colonize This! Young Women of Color on Today’s Feminism. Of the book, author Rebecca Walker said:
“These young women pick up where foremothers Audre Lorde and Gloria Anzaldúa left off.”

Colonize This! is taught in women studies classes alongside the classic works of feminist theories, but I’m still mostly proud that young women tell me they buy the book because it’s a good read.
At ColorLines, a newsmagazine on race and politics, I spent six amazing years working with a virtual, multi-racial newsroom of reporters, activists, and bloggers. ColorLines was awarded UTNE’s General Excellence Award in 2007, and my article “Becoming a Black Man” about how transgender people of color experience race when they transition from one gender to another was nominated for a 2009 GLAAD Media Award.

My essays have appeared in several anthologies including 50 Ways to Support Lesbian and Gay Equality (New World Library, 2005), Without a Net: The Female Experience of Growing Up Working Class (Seal Press, 2004), and Border-Line Personalities: A New Generation of Latinas Dish on Sex, Sass, and Cultural Shifting (Harper Paperbacks, 2004). At twenty-five, I was a columnist for Ms. magazine, writing personal stories about feminism and my so-called Latina life. Two years later, I spent a year on The New York Times’s metro desk, where I covered fires, MTA fare hikes, and how undocumented immigrants decide whether to file tax returns.

My writing and I have been blessed with residencies at Hedgebrook (2000), MacDowell Colony (2001), Blue Mountain Center (2008), and the Djerassi Resident Arts Program (2009). I’ve also had the most amazing opportunity to be a part of the Macondo writing workshop started by Sandra Cisneros in San Antonio, Texas, and the VONA workshop family in the San Francisco Bay Area.

I received a B.A. in English at William Paterson University, an M.A. in journalism and Caribbean and Latin American studies at New York University, and an M.F.A. in creative writing from the University of Miami.”

Book Tour

The Booksmith, September 9th, 7:30pm, San Francisco, CA
Book Passage at Corte Madera, September 10th, 7:00pm, Corte Madera, CA
Book Soup, September 13th, 4:00pm, West Hollywood, CA
La Casa Azul Bookstore, September 26th, 6:30-8:00pm, NYC
Comadres & Compadres, Latino Writers Conference, September 27th, time tba, Brooklyn, NY
Bluestockings, September 29th, 7:00pm, NYC
Politics & Prose, October 5th, 1:00pm, DC
University of Northern Iowa, October 9th, 9:30am, Cedar Falls, IA
Carleton College, November 7th, 10:55am Northfield, Minnesota
Magers & Quinn, November 7th, 7:00pm, Minneapolis
Miami Book Fair, November 22nd and November 23rd, time tba